tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3521919.post113077027099469884..comments2023-07-02T06:22:48.484-05:00Comments on Brian Miller: Rob Smith RuleBrianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17368008061897865097noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3521919.post-1130973268053328772005-11-02T17:14:00.000-06:002005-11-02T17:14:00.000-06:00Thanks for a great reminder to be positive with my...Thanks for a great reminder to be positive with my kids. I, too, usually want to say no or..."stop it"...when it's really me just saying..."I'm too tired to deal with it"...<BR/><BR/>Being a dad is...tough, hard, rewarding...importanttravis spencerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02358921922681833566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3521919.post-1130815671188965562005-10-31T21:27:00.000-06:002005-10-31T21:27:00.000-06:00Thanks for the kind comments Brian. I read it som...Thanks for the kind comments Brian. I read it somewhere. Nothing original from me. <BR/><BR/>Seven years later I still try my best to live by that rule. The corollary to the rule is that there are some very tough and definite "no's" that have to be said eventually to our children. Hopefully a trust develops such that the tough no's become easy for your child to accept. <BR/><BR/>Much of the time when my daughter asks me to read or my son asks me to play catch, I really want to say no...but don't. I become the one rewarded.<BR/><BR/>I hope as tougher years come my children will understand that I am genuine in my discernment in what I say yes and no to.<BR/><BR/>Doesn't God operate similarly?<BR/><BR/>I wanted a beautiful wife, children, job, friends, etc. and I have it. Sometimes I want other things that God says no to. I am glad he says no to those things.<BR/><BR/>rob smithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com