Respectfully, I don't agree that the "real question is does everyone get to go to heaven."
I agree there's no way everybody gets to go to heaven. Many/most don't even really want to.
(You can read the middle part of his comment in the comment)
My "real question", if there is one, for any of us: "Is the Good News of the Kingdom actually good news to you?"
Well, I would say we are getting at the same thing. At some point, there is a question of what does it take to have an eternal relationship with God that is eternal life that hopefully starts right now and transitions positively for me in heaven. You're looking for the answer at a slightly different point. I am saying at the time of judgment you will find out for sure the answer to that question and that will determine whether you go to heaven or to hell.
The real (we've worn out the welcome on the word "real") question is "Are you going to follow Jesus... cause it needs to start today!?"